Remember the Way you are  perceiving  a situation is through your lens of reality or the Way you are being told about a situation is through their lens of reality. Both may have not much to do with the matter hand, particularly if the facts are not openly on the table. Even then reality is a matter of individual perception. Best that we stay close our own, there is always lots to be mindful of, be curious about and to learn.

Lori Ellis~McKinney (2018)