They may not be avoiding you they may just be:
Maybe how a person chooses to live, set their priorities, spend their time has nothing to do with you whatsoever.
Maybe they are living by the power of choice, freedom, happiness, contentment and joy and surround their day with as much of that as possible, while in the same moments meeting responsibilities and freely giving to others who may be in need.
Maybe it is called Empowered Choice Living and it is a new way of structuring lives in a new realm of awareness that is not based on busyness, obligations, suppression, conformity and expectations.
Maybe.
Lori Ellis~McKinney (2018)