One of the positives that I have found when under the effect of another’s criticism and attack, haters get such a high from hate that they take it to a level that even the one being hated says wait a minute I can’t be that bad, I have done good things in my life.

That’s when the lights of clarity come on and one realizes the hate was never about me it was about them, and their need to hate someone or something.

Then your free from the effect of the hate and can move on leaving the hater and the effect of the hate behind you, and with them.

Lori Ellis-McKinney